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Starting a New Chapter in Your Life

What does it mean to start a new chapter in your life?

How do you know when one chapter ends and another begins? Is it a physical boundary that you cross, or a mental boundary that you cross?

For many people, we identify “starting a new chapter in our lives” with major life events such as graduating school, starting a new career, getting married, moving to a new place, having kids, or retiring – but the truth is we can “start a new chapter in our lives” whenever we want.

We can have an infinite amount of new chapters in our lives. It all depends on when you’re willing to let something go, and when you’re willing to step in a new direction.

Starting a new chapter is ultimately something created in your mind. It’s the meaning you attach to the event that allows you to perceive the event as something that changes you or opens up a new door in your life.

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The Just World Fallacy: When Bad Things Happen to Good People

just world fallacy

The “just world fallacy” is the belief that a person always gets what they deserve in life.

If a person behaves as a good and moral person, then only good things will happen to them. And if a person behaves as a bad and immoral person, then only bad things will happen to them.

Commonly, the belief in the “just world fallacy” is often paired together with the belief in a God or divine order in the universe. For example, often you’ll see people justify a natural disaster destroying a town or city as God’s way of punishing them for wrong-doing.

Or when people find something going wrong in their own personal life, they will look to the sky and think, “What did I do to deserve this?” But the truth is that sometimes bad things happen to good people, for no good reason.

People don’t always get what they deserve, and this is a part of reality that we need to learn to accept.

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Create Your Own Personal Philosophy

The importance of creating your own personal philosophy, and not just identifying yourself with one school of thought.

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How to Apply a Scientific Mindset to Your Everyday Life

scientific mindset

The scientific mindset is a great way to better understand the world and how to adapt to it. This mindset is not only useful in colleges and laboratories, but I believe we can also apply it to our everyday lives.

By learning to be a more scientific thinker, we always respect the facts, question our beliefs, practice our knowledge in the real world, and never stop learning new things.

This mindset can significantly benefit our lives by teaching us how to adapt effectively to new information in our world, and never just take our preconceived knowledge and beliefs for granted.

I believe that anyone can benefit from adopting a more “scientific mindset,” even if they are not a scientist or researcher. Here are the main principles behind becoming a more scientific thinker in your everyday life.

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Enlightened Self-Interest: When Your Values Overlap with Other People’s Values

enlightened self-interest

Enlightened self-interest is the idea that often times doing what is good for yourself is also doing what is good for others, and vice versa.

This means your interests and values overlap with the interests and values of other people. And ultimately, when you work to achieve your own values (and what really matters to you), you are also creating value for society as a whole.

In my article about false choices, one of the main ones I bring up is the false choice between “self-interest” and “altruism.”

The common belief is that to live a good and moral life you have two choices: 1) Be completely “selfless” and do nothing but serve others, or 2) Be completely “selfish” and just do what you want because other people have to take care of themselves.

However, the most important insight is to see how serving yourself and serving others is often the same thing. This is what enlightened self-interest is all about.

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