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How to Apply a Scientific Mindset to Your Everyday Life

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The scientific mindset is a great way to better understand the world and how to adapt to it. This mindset is not only useful in colleges and laboratories, but I believe we can also apply it to our everyday lives.

By learning to be a more scientific thinker, we always respect the facts, question our beliefs, practice our knowledge in the real world, and never stop learning new things.

This mindset can significantly benefit our lives by teaching us how to adapt effectively to new information in our world, and never just take our preconceived knowledge and beliefs for granted.

I believe that anyone can benefit from adopting a more “scientific mindset,” even if they are not a scientist or researcher. Here are the main principles behind becoming a more scientific thinker in your everyday life.

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Enlightened Self-Interest: When Your Values Overlap with Other People’s Values

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Enlightened self-interest is the idea that often times doing what is good for yourself is also doing what is good for others, and vice versa.

This means your interests and values overlap with the interests and values of other people. And ultimately, when you work to achieve your own values (and what really matters to you), you are also creating value for society as a whole.

In my article about false choices, one of the main ones I bring up is the false choice between “self-interest” and “altruism.”

The common belief is that to live a good and moral life you have two choices: 1) Be completely “selfless” and do nothing but serve others, or 2) Be completely “selfish” and just do what you want because other people have to take care of themselves.

However, the most important insight is to see how serving yourself and serving others is often the same thing. This is what enlightened self-interest is all about.

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Beginner’s Mind: Looking at Old Problems With New Eyes

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Beginner’s mind is defined as “an attitude of openness, eagerness, and lack of preconceptions when studying a subject, even when studying at an advanced level, just as beginner in the subject would.”

This is a very healthy and beneficial attitude to have at times. Often when we become really knowledgeable about an area in life, we become blinded in our ability to look at the subject from a new and different perspective.

The perfect example of beginner’s mind is watching a child freely play and explore their environment. A child is often experiencing many things for the very first time – with that comes a sense of openness and wonder that defines beginner’s mind.

To take this beginner’s mind into our adult life, we often need to learn how to let go of our preconceived views of the world that we have been taught over all these years.

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Overcoming Obstacles: Why You Always Want to Give Up A Little – But You Don’t

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Anyone who has ever achieved anything has had to face many obstacles to get to where they are today. But what defines their success is never how many obstacles stand in their way, but how many they are willing to overcome.

Obstacles are a necessary part of growth. Because if you are never being challenged, then you are never testing your limits, or learning anything new. That means you’re not moving forward.

The successful person tends to view obstacles as a positive sign. They welcome obstacles into their lives. They actively search for new challenges and are eager to dive into them and come out a better person.

The average person tends to view obstacles as a negative sign. They expect the easy road, so when they finally do come across an obstacle, they quickly get frustrated, disappointed, and want to give up.

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The Mindbus Technique: A Visualization for Defusing Negative Thoughts

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The mindbus technique is an exercise often practiced in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).

The basic idea is to imagine yourself as the driver of a “mindbus” and to imagine your thoughts as passengers riding this bus with you. This is a great way to become more mindful of your thinking, while at the same time distancing yourself from your thoughts.

In one study published in the British Journal of Health Psychology, individuals who used this mindbus technique showed higher self-control and were better able to resist urges to eat chocolate.

The participants were instructed to imagine their thoughts about eating chocolate as different passengers on their mindbus. They even assigned them different voices and personalities, so that each was seen as a separate person.

Then they were instructed to try different methods to take control over their mindbus. For example, imagining the passengers leaving the bus, or letting them know you’re the driver and you’re in charge.

The mindbus technique is a way to create “cognitive defusion.” This makes your thoughts less powerful by not identifying with them, but rather seeing them as just temporary experiences passing you by.

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