Psychology and Self Improvement
Re-visiting Your Goals And Aspirations
Categories: Productivity

We all have certain aspirations in life. We tell them to our friends and family. We write them down. And other times we keep them hidden underneath our brain wrinkles.

Whatever we do, they are there; they are implicit in our conscious action. They are short-term and long-term intuition.

But if we don’t periodically ask questions like “Where am I going? How will I get there?” our goals begin to drift further and further away from our outcomes. We are no longer exercising our free will, we are instead like puppets pulled by strings.


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“A goal properly set is halfway reached.” – Abraham Lincoln


Making a list

It has been exactly one month now since I wrote about goal-setting in my article, “Create A Progressive Timeline To Better Envision Your Goals.” In this post I emphasized the importance of writing down our goals, making ourselves more conscious of these aspirations, and getting ourselves in the mindset to achieve them. I also promised my readers that I would write a follow-up article touching on ways you can improve your timeline to make it more effective in helping you meet these goals.

Making a goal timeline is simple. All I recommend is that you list out the goals you want to achieve within certain time frames, for example:

    Within the next hour,

    • X1
    • X2
    • X3
    • X4

    Within the next day,

    • X1
    • X2
    • X3
    • X4

    Within the next week,

    • X1
    • X2
    • X3
    • X4

    Within the next month,

    • X1
    • X2
    • X3
    • X4

    Within the next year

    • X1
    • X2
    • X3
    • X4

    Within the next decade.

    • X1
    • X2
    • X3
    • X4

Once you write your list, save it, and try to update it every 3 months. Remember, your goals aren’t set in stone.




Re-visiting

Whether you have written them down or not, you probably have a decent recollection of the types of things you have wished to accomplish throughout your lifetime (at least the biggest and most important ones).

When you re-visit your goals there are several things you might notice:


1. Some of your goals may have already been accomplished.

One of the best feelings in the world is to finally accomplish one of your long-term goals. When I refer back to the list I made last month (and especially to the goals that I listed to complete “Within the month,”) I can already begin to sense some form of accomplishment.


2. You may have changed your mind on certain goals.

You may glance through the list and notice you aren’t as enthusiastic about some of these plans as you were when you first made them. Of course, as long as you have genuinely lost interest, and you are not just fishing for reasons to quit, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with changing some of your goals. We change (and many times for good reason).


3. You may want to add new goals to your list.

Just like the point made above: we are always changing. As some interests diminish, others develop.


4. Some goals are becoming less and less likely to achieve.

Some goals you may still be very interested in, but you simply don’t have the physical and mental resources to do them. They are becoming unlikelihoods. Maybe you’re simply “not good enough” to become a professional baseball player, or a local politician, or a model – so what, most of us aren’t. We have to sometimes accept our limitations, and if you can acknowledge which goals are becoming more and more unrealistic, then you can filter them from the list and divert your attention on more important things. Yeah, it sucks, and it can temporarily hurt your drive, but it is better than wasting resources on things that you stand little chance of accomplishing.


5. Some goals you are on your way towards completing.

You may already be on the right path toward some of these goals. Good job and stay focused.



How often should I re-evaluate my goals?

You want to be consistent, but not excessive. At least once every 2-3 months should be a healthy refresher. Doing things like this can really be a great exercise and it only takes 10 minutes. It is a way to take a step back, so that you keep your mind concentrated on the things you really wish to make out of life, and not letting yourself get lost in the hectic tides of a busy work schedule. When I reflect back on my goals, I like to think of it as a kind of meditation; a way for me to assess the karma of my actions (what they are leading to) and adjust them accordingly.



Good planning means adding details

Like Abraham Lincoln says in the quote above, “A goal properly set is halfway reached.” But what does it mean to properly set a goal? Making lists can be useful, but better planning requires that we add details to our goals. So, you want to be a doctor? That’s great! But what steps do you have to take to get there? For starters, you will probably need to maintain a high GPA all throughout college, then you have to take the MCAT exam, than get into a medical school, than pass medical school, find a job as a doctor, etc. And that is just the surface (I’m only brainstorming about how to become a doctor), eventually you need to actually do research, talk to professors and administrators, and then act out those plans.


Where are the best places to get the details?

Depending on your goals there are a variety of ways to seek advice or guidance. The internet has proven to be one of the most valuable resources within our recent history. If you are unsure about anything, you can go to forums to ask questions, search something on Google, find a blog of someone who is a professional, find a video of someone doing it on Youtube, or read about the subject on Wikipedia.

You can also talk to friends, family, coworkers, or fellow students who may have experience with what you want to accomplish. Maybe you want to learn more about recording and your uncle’s best friend owns his own studio. Maybe you want to get your grades up in a class, so you find a friend who is majoring in the subject to tutor you. Don’t hesitate to ask around, because a lot of answers may be right in front of you.

One thing I like to do to learn about a topic is go to my local library. As long as you live in the area you should be able to get a library card and take out books, CDs, and DVDs for free. This is a great way to find informational gems that you would otherwise not get on the internet or through friends. In many ways, the library is what sets you apart from the pack. I try to always keep myself in the middle of some book to keep my mind active.



Visualization and “seeing all the way through”

How often does it happen when we see people make a mistake and then say to themselves, “I just didn’t see my actions all the way through.”

Visualizing our actions and the consequences to those actions can help us to avoid making those mistakes. It is a great way to prepare ourselves mentally before we begin acting out our goals. Visualization has been used in Sports Psychology for decades now as a method of rehearsal and motivation. Also, this was recently reported by one psychiatrist and brain researcher at the Huffington Post,

    “Although visualization was regarded as ‘new age hype’ for many years, research has shown that there is a strong scientific basis for how and why visualization works. It is now a well-known fact that we stimulate the same brain regions when we visualize an action and when we actually perform that same action. For example, when you visualize lifting your right hand, it stimulates the same part of the brain that is activated when you actually lift your right hand. This shared area of brain activation when we imagine an action and perform it has been demonstrated extensively in the scientific literature. A striking example of how visualization increases brain activation is seen in stroke.

    When a person has a stroke due to a blood clot in a brain artery, blood cannot reach the tissue that the artery once fed with oxygen and nutrients, and that tissue dies. This tissue death then spreads to the surrounding area that does not receive the blood any more. However, if a person with this stroke imagines moving the affected arm or leg, brain blood flow to the affected area increases and the surrounding brain tissue is saved. Imagining moving a limb, even after it has been paralyzed after a stroke, increases brain blood flow enough to diminish the amount of tissue death. This is a very clear indicator of the power of visualization. “

Visualization can be great method for improving learning, motivation, and goal-setting. It allows us to consciously prepare an idea, even though we haven’t practiced it yet in the real world. Visualization is most effective when we take into account the different ranges of possibilities, and how different decisions can lead to different sets of outcomes. This is a big part of what it means when we say to “see things all the way through.” By imagining ourselves doing certain actions, and by imagining the consequences of those actions, we can check to see if they are congruent with our original intentions.

One caveat, however, is to not mistaken the efficacy of visualization in The Secret-sense of the term. This means that, contrary to New Age garble, merely visualizing your desires will never get you the things you want. It is only a form of planning, and eventually you need to consciously act out that plan.


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8 Comments to “Re-visiting Your Goals And Aspirations”

  1. Very informative post. Goal setting is so important, because it keeps us from floundering about and wasting effort.

    One other thing I find very important is the use of checkpoints along the way to achieving goals. Particularly when it comes to long term goals (more than a month), it helps to have checkpoints that let you know you're on the right track.

  2. Great points, Dave! I absolutely agree. Good blog by the way! I am currently on one of my own 30-day challenges as well – trying to get myself fit! I am thinking about making a free ebook on it and hopefully releasing it this year.

  3. Walter says:

    The moment we set our goals and act upon it, the process of re-evaluating becomes constant. There are many thing we can learn along the journey and we should consider it for our goals to evolve.

    This is a helpful and encouraging post. Thanks for sharing. :-)

  4. Great post. I agree that a lot of times goals become less important after some time, so I constantly check and discard those.

  5. A great article that demonstrates basically to stay conscious while living life! All this stuff is common sense, like most articles on this site, however, many people simply lack common sense, and it is easy for anyone to lose sight of their goals and become disorganized, so thanks for the reminder. I am more of an intuitive when it comes to goal setting – I’m just going to go ahead and do it and see how it feels. My personal goal is to generate a full-time income from an entreprenuerial pursuit. We’ll see how it goes, but thanks for the advice and guidance – keeps me honest!

  6. I’m glad I stumbled upon your site, excellent post. You take a refreshing and flexible approach to setting and achieving goals.

    thank you!

  7. @Walter – I am not so sure if "re-evaluating becomes constant." We would need to first build in that attitude, otherwise many people forget to ever look back and re-evaluate where there lives are heading.

    @Oscar – Definitely. Thanks!

    @Dan – I always wonder what "common sense" is. Many things are glaringly obvious, but people are too busy to ever pay attention to them. It seems folks need to constantly be reminded about the things that really matter, and part of my job is to wake people up to those realities. As Voltaire once said, "Common sense is not so common."

    @jack – Very cool that you stumbled on this page. I am glad you enjoyed it.

  8. Jacob says:

    Incredible post. I have never seen the principles of NLP and visualization described so clearly. Thank you!

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