You can learn a lot about someone by how they respond to a crisis. Do your relationships survive the “zombie apocalypse test” – or would they break apart under pressure?
All positive relationships require a “we”-perspective. Psychology research shows the use of the pronouns “we” and “us” is associated with happier relationships and better conflict resolution than when we focus on “me” and “you.”
The “hive mind” effect shows that being around really smart people can help to bring out the best in you. Our capabilities are often closely tied to the intelligence and abilities of the people around us.
When people imagine positive conversations and positive outcomes in their relationships, they are more likely to believe in their plausibility, which prepares them to be more positive and cooperative in their real world relationships.