
It’s not hard to make a decision that impacts your life. Even small and simple changes can make a big difference if you make them where they really count.
Here is an experiment you can try in changing one small habit in your daily routine. The goal is to try it out successfully for one full week, then re-evaluate whether you would like to continue the habit change in the future.
Step 1: Choose one habit.
We all know the kinds of habits we want to change. They aren’t hard to think of. The problem is focusing in on one and putting in the effort to make it happen.
Concentrating all your energy on one habit is often better than trying to change too much at once. When we spread our efforts too thin, we burn out easily and nothing gets accomplished.
However, when we focus on one small but meaningful change, we are more likely to see it become a reality. Not to mention we build more momentum to make changes in the future.
If you can’t think of any small change to make, consider one of these common suggestions:
- Substitute every glass of soda with a glass of water.
- Wake up an hour early every morning.
- Sacrifice 15-30 minutes of TV each day and meditate instead.
- Read a chapter of a novel every night before bed.
- Do 10 push-ups every time you want to smoke a cigarette.
- Floss every morning.
- Write a blog/journal entry once a day.
- Make time in your schedule to jog a mile each day.
- Plan 2-4 social interactions throughout the week.
Remember to only choose one of these habits at a time. Also, try to choose something that is relevant to an area in your life that you want to improve.
Step 2: Stay committed.
Now that you have chosen your habit to practice for the week, the key is staying committed.
Because you are only making one simple change, try to be as disciplined as possible about it. If you slip up once, that’s fine, but try to not even let that happen. Remember, you are only trying to stay committed for one week, so it shouldn’t be that big of a deal.
Here are some suggestions to keep you motivated:
- Repeat an affirmation 10 times right when you wake up: “I will do X today.”
- Leave appropriate reminders around the house, such as a sticky note on your kitchen cabinet.
- Tell a couple supportive friends about your goal. Have them keep you accountable.
- Take 5 minutes and imagine yourself doing the habit. This kind of visualization can prepare you to do the action when it’s time.
- Notice the bigger picture. How can this habit benefit you in the long-term?
- Avoid excuses. It’s just one week, really.
Step 3: Evaluate your progress.
Once the week is completed, take the time to reflect and ask yourself:
- Was this habit change worth it?
- How did it change my thoughts and emotions?
- How did it change my behavior?
- Did it improve the overall quality of my life?
- Is this a change I want to continue in the future?
If the answers to these questions are positive, then consider sustaining your new habit into the future. If not, scratch the new habit and try something different.
There are always adjustments to make in life. That doesn’t mean every new thing we try is going to be the best possible choice, but we should always consider room for improvement.
I hope this article has provided you with a simple and easy-to-use framework for trying new habits. A big part of self-improvement is experimentation and trial-and-error. This exercise encourages us to try new habits without feeling like they are set in stone.
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January 20th, 2012
This is very helpful especially to those who have challenges with keeping the resolutions. Like me, I find it hard to change some of my undesirable habits because I want to change them all at the same time. Falling out and losing focus is easier than keeping them… Your advice is something I want to take on moving forward.
January 20th, 2012
HI there, I'm the first one again
). I worked, cause I havent smokes since then. I guess staing commited is the most challenging part but as soon as u realise it's just a CHOICE (in fact YOUR choice) and follow the advices steve is giving you with this post – you can do it!
"Do 10 push-ups every time you want to smoke a cigarette" is almost exactly what I decided to do 2 month ago (was 20
As always liking your post and style and wishing best to everyone,
Denny
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January 20th, 2012
Staying committed is obviously a whole lot easier said than done. People often fail to make desired changes because they logically – but incorrectly – assume that the good reasons that motivated them to DECIDE to make a particular change will also keep them motivated to actually make it. Unfortunately, the mind just doesn't work that way.
A clinical psychologist, author ("Following Through") and inventor (the MotivAider) who focuses on helping people follow through on their own good intentions, I'm convinced that the normal human mind, left to its own devices, does a really lousy job of transforming our good intentions into action. In light of the way the mind is wired, following through is far less automatic than we expect it to be.
I'm in the process of developing a free online educational tool that's designed to help people do a better job of making desired changes by carefully positioning their good intentions for success. Although the tool is a work in progress that will be improved and expanded based on user input, it's available now at http://myplan.followingthrough.org.
January 24th, 2012
that's a good plan
its always better to replace bad habits with good ones
thanks for the post
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January 26th, 2012
Thanks for the plan. I actually think I need to replace soda for water. I heard so much bad things about soda and what it does to your teeth and body.
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February 1st, 2012
Nice stuff.
I think every small change is always better for our health so we must go for it!!
February 1st, 2012
I find it hard to change some of my undesirable habits because I want to change them all at the same time. Falling out and losing focus is easier than keeping them… Your advice is something I want to take on moving forward.
Thanks a lots!!
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