relationship evaluator quiz

Think of one important person in your life. Take this 25-question quiz to gauge trust, support, conflict, and the strength of your connection.

1. Small disagreements often turn into bigger arguments.
2. Outside stress often spills over into how we treat each other.
3. We respect each other's boundaries and need for space.
4. There is more negativity than warmth and enjoyment in our relationship.
5. I can picture this relationship lasting into the future.
6. We can talk openly about difficult or uncomfortable topics.
7. We have fun and laugh together a lot.
8. We insult each other when we’re hurt or angry.
9. We regularly show each other appreciation and care.
10. Our core values and priorities often pull us in different directions.
11. I trust this person to be honest and dependable.
12. We seem to have the same arguments over and over without really resolving them.
13. We celebrate each other's successes.
14. I feel supported and understood by this person.
15. We can disagree without it becoming personal or threatening the relationship.
16. I generally like who I am around this person.
17. We enjoy spending time together.
18. During conflicts, one of us sometimes threatens to end the relationship or walk away.
19. Our relationship is filled with drama.
20. There are important things I don't feel comfortable being honest with this person about.
21. Our relationship often feels stale, like we’re just going through the motions.
22. After a disagreement, we can usually repair things and reconnect.
23. We have a good balance of independence and togetherness.
24. It feels like obligation is doing more to keep this relationship going than genuine connection.
25. It often feels like one person is carrying more of the relationship than the other.