relationship evaluator quiz

Think of one important person in your life. Take this 25-question quiz to gauge trust, support, conflict, and the strength of your connection.

1. Our relationship often feels stale, like we’re just going through the motions.
2. We have a good balance of independence and togetherness.
3. We celebrate each other's successes.
4. We can talk openly about difficult or uncomfortable topics.
5. We enjoy spending time together.
6. I generally like who I am around this person.
7. I trust this person to be honest and dependable.
8. We regularly show each other appreciation and care.
9. Our relationship is filled with drama.
10. I can picture this relationship lasting into the future.
11. It feels like obligation is doing more to keep this relationship going than genuine connection.
12. I feel supported and understood by this person.
13. After a disagreement, we can usually repair things and reconnect.
14. There is more negativity than warmth and enjoyment in our relationship.
15. We have fun and laugh together a lot.
16. There are important things I don't feel comfortable being honest with this person about.
17. Our core values and priorities often pull us in different directions.
18. It often feels like one person is carrying more of the relationship than the other.
19. During conflicts, one of us sometimes threatens to end the relationship or walk away.
20. Outside stress often spills over into how we treat each other.
21. We insult each other when we’re hurt or angry.
22. Small disagreements often turn into bigger arguments.
23. We respect each other's boundaries and need for space.
24. We can disagree without it becoming personal or threatening the relationship.
25. We seem to have the same arguments over and over without really resolving them.