relationship evaluator quiz

Think of one important person in your life. Take this 25-question quiz to gauge trust, support, conflict, and the strength of your connection.

1. There is more negativity than warmth and enjoyment in our relationship.
2. After a disagreement, we can usually repair things and reconnect.
3. Small disagreements often turn into bigger arguments.
4. I trust this person to be honest and dependable.
5. We have fun and laugh together a lot.
6. It often feels like one person is carrying more of the relationship than the other.
7. We celebrate each other's successes.
8. Our relationship is filled with drama.
9. During conflicts, one of us sometimes threatens to end the relationship or walk away.
10. We respect each other's boundaries and need for space.
11. I generally like who I am around this person.
12. It feels like obligation is doing more to keep this relationship going than genuine connection.
13. We enjoy spending time together.
14. We can talk openly about difficult or uncomfortable topics.
15. There are important things I don't feel comfortable being honest with this person about.
16. We have a good balance of independence and togetherness.
17. I feel supported and understood by this person.
18. We seem to have the same arguments over and over without really resolving them.
19. We insult each other when we’re hurt or angry.
20. We regularly show each other appreciation and care.
21. We can disagree without it becoming personal or threatening the relationship.
22. Our relationship often feels stale, like we’re just going through the motions.
23. Outside stress often spills over into how we treat each other.
24. I can picture this relationship lasting into the future.
25. Our core values and priorities often pull us in different directions.