relationship evaluator quiz

Think of one important person in your life. Take this 25-question quiz to gauge trust, support, conflict, and the strength of your connection.

1. We can talk openly about difficult or uncomfortable topics.
2. We regularly show each other appreciation and care.
3. We have fun and laugh together a lot.
4. We respect each other's boundaries and need for space.
5. Small disagreements often turn into bigger arguments.
6. It feels like obligation is doing more to keep this relationship going than genuine connection.
7. We can disagree without it becoming personal or threatening the relationship.
8. I generally like who I am around this person.
9. Outside stress often spills over into how we treat each other.
10. I trust this person to be honest and dependable.
11. Our relationship often feels stale, like we’re just going through the motions.
12. After a disagreement, we can usually repair things and reconnect.
13. We have a good balance of independence and togetherness.
14. Our core values and priorities often pull us in different directions.
15. There are important things I don't feel comfortable being honest with this person about.
16. I feel supported and understood by this person.
17. We celebrate each other's successes.
18. During conflicts, one of us sometimes threatens to end the relationship or walk away.
19. It often feels like one person is carrying more of the relationship than the other.
20. There is more negativity than warmth and enjoyment in our relationship.
21. We seem to have the same arguments over and over without really resolving them.
22. We insult each other when we’re hurt or angry.
23. We enjoy spending time together.
24. Our relationship is filled with drama.
25. I can picture this relationship lasting into the future.